Judith's Mom Died

My sister from Dad's second marriage just emailed saying her mom died on the 1st. She was jealous of us, my brother, sister and I, and made my Dad promise to not have any contact.

We found each other almost ten years ago through my sister-in-law's genealogy efforts, but have had to keep our relationship hidden. We have talked of her coming to visit but she could not while her mom was alive. Now, maybe! She's 57, I think?